Surviving 2009 Together

I often assess the passing year as the new one approaches. I have mixed feelings about 2009. The start of the year, like the second half of 2008, was really scary at the RFC. The country was in financial melt-down, people were losing their jobs, and that had ominous implications for our fund raising prospects as the year progressed. We also knew that whatever the new administration did (and it sure hasn’t been much!) the legacy of the Bush era repression would not evaporate overnight and that many of our beneficiary families would be even more vulnerable during what promised to be a very deep recession.

As the year progressed our fears eased. We could see that our donors were struggling. People were incredibly committed, but many simply couldn’t afford to give what they had in previous years. However, the drop off was not precipitous, and others who had the wherewithal stepped into the breech and gave even more. I’ve never felt prouder of our community which displayed both compassion and astuteness.

And many of our beneficiaries were just as high-minded. They were in dire straights, but a number of them actually REDUCED their requests so that there would be more available to others. I suppose we should not have been surprised by the community spirit of our beneficiaries, but it was still incredibly moving.

Our donors’ generosity complemented by our beneficiaries’ selflessness carried us through the difficult year. We cut our granting budget by 20% from $400,000 in 2008 to $320,000. Cancelling our 2009 Carry it Forward Gathering accounted for $35,000 of this $80,000 decrease. It hurt to do this, but it was the only way we could continue to provide at least some support to all the children of targeted activists who applied and fell within our guidelines.

It could have been tragic if we had been forced to slash another $45,000, but we didn’t have to. Whether at RFC parties, events, or in response to our mailings and newsletters, so many people stepped up with extraordinary support that we were able to award $35,000 more than we had projected (almost $355,000). So we only had to trim an additional $10,000 from the more than 160 grants we awarded this year. That’s only a little over $60/grant!

I can’t adequately express how relieved the RFC staff and Board felt at having this painful task cut down to a more manageable size.

So we enter 2010 somewhat the worse for wear, but we can savor the bright spots. We had to work harder and will still slip back a little… but only a little. We’re not nearly as scared as we were a year ago, but I wonder how much of that is because we’ve gotten used to rough times.

I’m tracking the response to our year-end letter now. It is our biggest single source of annual support. We’re doing OK, but not quite as well as last year. As we look to 2010 we’ll just keep plugging away as hard as we can. I’ve always been in it for the long haul and knowing the entire RFC community is with me, our staff, our Board and the children we support, is what keeps me going.

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RFC: Family of the Heart

Note: this is a guest blog by a participant at the RFC's Carry It Forward Gathering held in August, 2011 (additional information about Gatherings is available here and on our facebook page here).

I walked up to the dorms of [the college where the RFC Gathering was being held] and saw a circle of people waiting. My heart started pounding as I realized that I was the last to arrive and everyone had already met. I saw Robby, Elli, and Jenn, the big hearts and brilliant minds that make the RFC such a welcoming place. After getting oriented briefly and reassuring my mother that yes, I would be ok without her, and yes, I would call if I needed her (despite the fact that I have lived independently for a fair amount of time) I joined the circle. And let me say, as a person who has experienced a lot of new social situations and a lot of tense introductions, this was nothing like that. I was welcomed like an old friend, people came up to me and genuinely wanted to check in about how my journey was and to find out more about me, what I do, and sharing equally of themselves.

Throughout the weekend we shared jokes, concerns, lively discussions, and new perspectives. I found myself in awe of these amazing young people who are brilliant, passionate, and always questioning. These were my people. It felt like summer camp for really big kids, I didn’t have to worry about anything. Meals, taken care of! Transportation, done! Scheduling, masterful! My biggest concern was, writing workshop or art, swimming or nature walk (these can be very challenging decisions).

The Gathering reminded me of an experience when I was a counselor at a summer camp a few years ago when we were designing the activities and we wanted to incorporate a day themed around family. We spent a great deal of time discussing how to include this theme in a way that would include all of the different kinds of families that exist. We ended up having a day focused on “family of the heart.” Our heart families can be incredibly large and stretch great distances, they can be the people whom we live with and see every day or the ones who teach us about the world, ourselves, and how we fit.

The RFC is really one big heart family where we find support in our hardest moments and ongoing struggles, as well as share in wonderful, joyful weekends that fill us up with the knowledge that even though we are different, even though we may not always be appreciated or encouraged in the actions that we take, we have a community out there that “gets” us.

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