Can we Revive the Gathering Program?

I suppose the RFC is doing as well as, if not better, than one would expect in the midst of the Great Recession (funny the way there is such a resistance to using the “d” word!). Our tremendously loyal and committed supporters have come through repeatedly with thousands upon thousands of modest donations, mostly ranging between $25 and $100. But I’m primarily attuned to our beneficiaries’ needs, and so end up seeing the glass as a quarter empty instead of three-quarters full.

Our donors contributed approximately $550,000 in 2009. This enabled us to make and administer grants totaling about $350,000. I expect we’ll match these totals in 2010. I’m extremely thankful to our contributors who’ve dug so deep, and equally pleased that the RFC’s staff of just three could justify this support by doing all our granting work, and increasing our communication to our supporters, while simultaneously adding a new layer of online outreach.

But we need an additional $30,000 to pay the costs of our next Gathering which we’ve already had to postpone from 2009 to 2011, and right now I don’t see where that money will come from. Most people give us $25, $50 or $100 each year. $30,000 more means an additional 300 gifts of $100, or 600 of $50, or 1200 of $25, on top of what people are already giving. It seems unrealistic to expect that will happen. And unlike our local hospital or college, the RFC doesn’t have any people on our list whom I can call to ask for $30,000.

And that’s not the end of it. We’ve not only cut back on our granting, but we’ve decreased our staffing as well. Before my daughter, Jenn joined the RFC we had a part-time Grantmaking Assistant along with our Grantmaking Coordinator. Jenn has been managing both jobs since coming on board over 2 years ago. So not only are we unable to fund the next Gathering, we also have insufficient human resources to organize it. And if we were to add that staff position, between salary and benefits that would be another $30,000.

So rather than reveling in the $550,000 we can raise, I find myself focused on the $60,000 we can’t. This situation is particularly frustrating, because this amount is not a pie-in-the-sky figure. I know exactly what we’d do with the money and can almost taste the concrete benefits these funds would create for the children we aid.

Don’t get me wrong. No one here is even considering giving up on the Gathering program. Repression is about disempowerment. Repressive forces seek to isolate their targets because it’s a quick way to demoralize them. Bringing those who have been targeted together to share experiences and develop mutual support networks is a wonderful way to re-empower our beneficiary families while providing essential nurturing for their children. The uniformly enthusiastic feedback we’ve received from Gathering participants confirms how important they are. So we’re pulling out all the stops in this 20th anniversary year to raise the funds we need to bring our project back to full speed.

I’m not certain that we can do it, but if by the end of this year you see an announcement in our newsletter or on our website that we are going forward with the 2011 Gathering you’ll know that, somehow, we pulled it off.

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RFC: Family of the Heart

Note: this is a guest blog by a participant at the RFC's Carry It Forward Gathering held in August, 2011 (additional information about Gatherings is available here and on our facebook page here).

I walked up to the dorms of [the college where the RFC Gathering was being held] and saw a circle of people waiting. My heart started pounding as I realized that I was the last to arrive and everyone had already met. I saw Robby, Elli, and Jenn, the big hearts and brilliant minds that make the RFC such a welcoming place. After getting oriented briefly and reassuring my mother that yes, I would be ok without her, and yes, I would call if I needed her (despite the fact that I have lived independently for a fair amount of time) I joined the circle. And let me say, as a person who has experienced a lot of new social situations and a lot of tense introductions, this was nothing like that. I was welcomed like an old friend, people came up to me and genuinely wanted to check in about how my journey was and to find out more about me, what I do, and sharing equally of themselves.

Throughout the weekend we shared jokes, concerns, lively discussions, and new perspectives. I found myself in awe of these amazing young people who are brilliant, passionate, and always questioning. These were my people. It felt like summer camp for really big kids, I didn’t have to worry about anything. Meals, taken care of! Transportation, done! Scheduling, masterful! My biggest concern was, writing workshop or art, swimming or nature walk (these can be very challenging decisions).

The Gathering reminded me of an experience when I was a counselor at a summer camp a few years ago when we were designing the activities and we wanted to incorporate a day themed around family. We spent a great deal of time discussing how to include this theme in a way that would include all of the different kinds of families that exist. We ended up having a day focused on “family of the heart.” Our heart families can be incredibly large and stretch great distances, they can be the people whom we live with and see every day or the ones who teach us about the world, ourselves, and how we fit.

The RFC is really one big heart family where we find support in our hardest moments and ongoing struggles, as well as share in wonderful, joyful weekends that fill us up with the knowledge that even though we are different, even though we may not always be appreciated or encouraged in the actions that we take, we have a community out there that “gets” us.

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Gathering our Strength

(Guest blog by Jenn Meeropol, RFC Associate Director)

It’s been a very busy few weeks at the RFC. My father has been on the road (to Portland, OR for a successful RFC party and then to Paris for international anti-death penalty work). Meanwhile, the postmark deadline for fall applications is today (October 13th) so I’ve been busy fielding inquiries from potential new and current beneficiary families.

While I always enjoy the opportunity to catch up with our beneficiary families and connect with new applicants via phone or email, it can be discouraging to hear these families’ updates, which too often include lost jobs, foreclosures, additional targeting or continued challenges and in some cases trauma, that their children are experiencing. This week in particular has brought several stories from new applicants about torture and police abuse. As much as we want to know about these circumstances so we can offer support, it can be overwhelming to hear about so much suffering.

I’ve found myself needing to take a moment to focus on some of the positives of our work; when I do, one of the first things that comes to mind is the recent Carry It Forward Gathering. Just about two months after the Gathering, I still find myself energized by both the event and the feedback we’ve received from participants and their families (learn more about the RFC Gathering programs here).

The mother of a participant emailed me: “The weekend [of the Gathering] was so great. What [my son] texted his father stands out – ‘This is the most exciting, interesting weekend I have ever had.’ I really want to thank you for this experience. I think it opened him up…. What also happened as a result is [my son] realized he did not know as much as he could/should about his father. He asked questions and his father opened up and addressed them. It was really moving….. Thank you and the RFC so much.”

Another participant told us “It was an absolute honor to meet all of you this past couple of days. You are all True Heroes and getting to know you all and the things you and your families have overcome was an absolute privilege. And I made some great friends in a short time. Cheers to you all!"

Finally, a young man who attended the Gathering shared that “There is a very powerful emotional benefit of meeting other people like you; other people with similar stories…It feeds on itself and there’s a kinship there. I think it’s really positive and really important that we all get to meet each other…The help that we get in isolation is significantly magnified when we all come together and talk about the help that we’ve gotten.”

In a nutshell, that’s what Gatherings (and RFC grants) are all about: combating the isolation that targeted activists and their families too often experience and letting them know that they are not alone. As we review the fall applications and hear too many stories of repression and suffering, it helps to remember that music lessons and therapy and summer camp and bringing people together to share their experiences does help. Thank you to the entire RFC community for making this possible.

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2012

I wish to thank the people who have commented on my last blog about the current administration’s policies and the looming environmental catastrophe. I received many thoughtful observations from a variety of sources including the RFC’s website, Facebook and the online site OpEdNews. I am encouraged that so many people wish to discuss this crucial question. I’m sorry that I have only been able to answer a few of them. I’ve been consumed with work related to our year-end fundraising and budgeting for the next 12 months.

At the RFC, we enter 2012 facing the same financial reality we’ve confronted since 2008. Four years ago I described the growing recession as “a perfect storm of negative circumstances.” I continued: “When people are facing foreclosure, worrying about health insurance, and paying gargantuan heating bills, they are less able to contribute.” At the same time the recession left many RFC beneficiary families even more financially vulnerable. As the economy tanked, their need for our services grew.

The RFC was fortunate. We knew in advance that 2008 was going to be a bad year for us because it was a presidential election year. It may surprise some in our community to learn that we are hurt in this manner every four years. It is hard to imagine that many of our supporters would take funds they’d normally donate to the RFC and give them instead to a presidential candidate. Once you realize, however, that we award between $350,000 and $400,000 annually, even if just 5% of our supporters focus on electoral funding instead, it could cost our beneficiaries $20,000.

With this potential loss in mind AND noting the mounting signs of financial disaster, we worked extra hard in 2006 and 2007 to stockpile funds and to make our operation even leaner rather than expand during the last years of relative good times. Thus, even though hard times hit, we were able to match the record $400,000 we awarded in 2007 with another $400,000 year in 2008. We also held our 2008 Family Gathering as planned.

But the recession went on and on, and the resources we’d worked to harbor dwindled. We had to cancel our 2009 Carry it Forward Gathering and reduce our granting in 2009 to $350,000. The recession persisted, but so did we. We vowed to return to the $400,000 mark as soon as possible. We started our 20/20/20 program in September, 2009 to mark our 20th anniversary with 20 events over 20 months to raise additional funds. The success of that program enabled us to increase our granting to $360,000 in 2010 and $370,000 in 2011. We were also able to hold the Carry it Forward Gathering we had to cancel in 2009.

The “we” I’ve referred to in the preceding paragraphs includes a huge number of people. Our staff and Board had the vision and effectiveness to bring about these successes, but the entire RFC community contributed mightily as well. Otherwise we never could have gotten through four very difficult years relatively unscathed.

Now year five of the endless recession is upon us, complete with another (groan) presidential election year. We have neither the rainy-day hoard we had at the beginning of 2008, nor the special anniversary program that gave us an extra lift from late 2009 through mid-2011. But we’ve still got the most committed and generous community of support imaginable. Together we will strive even harder in the coming year to fulfill our mission of providing for the children of targeted activists.

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